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Unexpected Items to Wear for Your Boudoir Shoot

If you're seeking a boudoir shoot that's far from ordinary, get ready to dive into the world of unexpected fashion choices that will take your boudoir experience to a whole new level. Break the mold, challenge norms, and celebrate your individuality with these surprising items that can transform your boudoir session into an extraordinary affair. So, let's explore these unexpected items to wear for your boudoir shoot!

Winter Coat: Ignite the Fire Within

Who says a winter coat is only meant to keep you warm? Picture this: a luxurious, fur-lined coat draped over your bare shoulders, hinting at the tantalizing secrets that lie beneath. The juxtaposition of the cozy fabric against your sensual ensemble creates an aura of mystery and allure. The unexpected combination of warmth and seduction will undoubtedly add a touch of drama to your boudoir shoot.

Not only does a winter coat exude elegance, but it also allows you to play with different textures and colors, creating a visually stunning contrast against your skin. Opt for a statement piece like a rich velvet or a plush faux fur coat to add a touch of opulence to your boudoir experience. The soft, tactile sensation of the coat against your body will ignite your senses and leave you feeling utterly glamorous.

Shapewear: Sculpt and Showcase Your Curves

Shapewear isn't just for tummy control anymore; it can be a secret weapon to enhance your natural curves during a boudoir shoot. Slip into a lacy corset or a sleek bodysuit that sculpts your figure, accentuating your curves in all the right places. The firm embrace of shapewear can boost your confidence, making you feel like a queen ready to conquer the world—or rather, the boudoir!

With advancements in shapewear design, you no longer have to sacrifice comfort for style. Choose pieces that are crafted with breathable fabrics and offer seamless construction, ensuring a flawless silhouette without any discomfort. Whether you want to create an hourglass shape, emphasize your assets, or simply feel supported and confident, shapewear allows you to take control of your boudoir shoot and embrace your unique beauty.

Sneakers: Embrace Comfortable Elegance

Glamorous heels have always been the go-to choice for boudoir shoots, but why not step into unexpected territory? Lace-up a pair of stylish sneakers that perfectly reflect your personality. These kicks not only provide unparalleled comfort but also add an edgy and playful vibe to your boudoir ensemble. Channel your inner urban goddess as you strut your stuff with confidence and grace.

By incorporating sneakers into your boudoir shoot, you're breaking free from the traditional notions of femininity and embracing a more relaxed and contemporary style. Play with contrasting elements by pairing sneakers with delicate lingerie or a flowy robe. The contrast of sporty footwear against the softness of your ensemble creates a visual dynamic that speaks volumes about your unique fashion sensibilities.

Swimsuit: Dive into Sensuality

Who says swimsuits are reserved for beach days alone? Embrace your inner mermaid and make a splash in a stunning swimsuit for your boudoir shoot. The sensuous lines of a one-piece or the flirtatious allure of a bikini can add an element of surprise and excitement to your intimate portraits. Allow the water-inspired ensemble to ignite a sense of freedom and confidence while showcasing your gorgeous figure in a new light.

A swimsuit brings a refreshing and unconventional element to your boudoir shoot, allowing you to explore different styles and cuts that flatter your body shape. Opt for a swimsuit with intricate details like lace, cutouts, or embellishments to add a touch of luxury. The sleek fabric of the swimsuit accentuates your curves and evokes a sense of confidence and empowerment. So, dive into sensuality, and let your inner siren take center stage.

Hat: Crown Yourself with Charisma

Ladies, it's time to top things off! Add a hat to your boudoir ensemble for a touch of old-world charm and mystique. Whether it's a wide-brimmed hat, a playful beret, or a seductive fedora, these head-turning accessories can elevate your shoot with flair. The hat not only frames your face but also acts as a symbol of empowerment, exuding confidence and intriguing the viewer's attention.

A hat instantly adds personality and character to your boudoir shoot. Choose a hat that complements your outfit and amplifies your unique style. Experiment with different angles and poses to showcase the hat's allure. Tilt it to the side for a coquettish look or wear it straight and proud for a touch of sophistication. Whatever style you choose, the hat becomes an extension of your charm, drawing the viewer's gaze and adding a glamorous element to your boudoir portraits.

Activewear: Athletic Elegance

Break free from traditional lingerie and embrace the fusion of comfort and style with activewear. Don a chic sports bra, sleek leggings, or a trendy crop top for a boudoir shoot that celebrates your active lifestyle and showcases your strength and determination. The sporty attire adds an unexpected twist, capturing the essence of a modern, empowered woman who is unafraid to push boundaries and redefine beauty.

Activewear allows you to showcase your sculpted physique, highlighting the hard work and dedication you've put into your fitness journey. Choose pieces that accentuate your best features and reflect your personal style. The sleek lines, vibrant colors, and breathable activewear fabrics lend a contemporary and energetic feel to your boudoir shoot. As you strike powerful poses, let the world see the embodiment of confidence and elegance that comes with embracing your athletic side.

Ballet Skirt: Grace and Poise

Unleash your inner ballerina and indulge in the ethereal beauty of a ballet skirt. The delicate layers of tulle gracefully cascade around you, embodying elegance and femininity. As you twirl and pose, the ballet skirt will create a whimsical ambiance, transforming your boudoir shoot into a fairytale-like experience. Let the magic and charm of this unexpected choice, and allow your fantasies to come to life.

A ballet skirt adds a touch of grace and softness to your boudoir shoot. Opt for a skirt with multiple layers for a voluminous effect, or choose a shorter length to showcase your legs. Pair it with a delicate bralette or a romantic lace top to create a dreamy and ethereal look. The ballet skirt captures movement and invites storytelling, creating a visual narrative that intertwines sensuality with elegance. Allow yourself to be transported to a world of enchantment and let the ballet skirt become the centerpiece of your boudoir fairytale.

Conclusion

It's time to step outside the box and let your imagination run wild. Your boudoir shoot is an opportunity to showcase your unique style and celebrate the beautiful individual you are. By incorporating unexpected items, you'll infuse your session with excitement and create memories that defy conventions.

Embrace the unexpected, own your sensuality, and let your confidence shine through. Remember, your boudoir shoot is a reflection of your inner beauty, strength, and individuality. Let your personality radiate, and watch as these unexpected items take your boudoir experience to extraordinary heights. Get ready to capture stunning images that tell your story in a way that's uniquely you!

Wardrobe Ideas for your Boudoir Shoot: The White Shirt

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Boudoir outfit inspiration

Your upcoming photoshoot is a big deal, so naturally the outfits you choose are important to plan carefully. After you book with me, I will send you a very comprehensive prep guide to help plan your looks. But in the meantime, I am starting this series of ideas for you to wearing during your boudoir session. Starting with …

The White Button Down Shirt

Ahh, the white shirt. Classic, classy, sexy, and already in your closet! There are so many ways to style a white shirt, and it’s always in style. Plus it looks good on EVERYONE, so naturally it’s one of my favorite pieces to photograph.

What style of white shirt should you choose?

I always recommend you choose a white button down without patterns, logos or details that could date the photo or be distracting. I personally love a shirt that it’s a little large (not too huge on you) and more summer weight - in other words, not too thick. A little sheerness is oh so sexy and a lighter material will move well when you do. I have a version of this kind of shirt in the studio if you don’t have one that you love.

Should I wear by partner’s shirt?

It’s always so fun to sneak your partner’s shirt out of the closet - so many of my clients do this and it always gives their partner a fun surprise. I would just call out that you don’t want the shirt to be TOO big on you-we still want to see you underneath it!

How should you wear a white shirt in your boudoir photoshoot?

There are SO MANY ways to wear the classic white shirt:

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  • Wear it over lingerie, choosing how many buttons are closed to tailor the level of “edge” to your comfort zone.

  • Wear it completely undone, draped off the shoulder. My clients always love a “taking the shirt off” pose. Bonus if the shirt is a little sheer so we can get a peek of your silhouette underneath.

  • Wear it totally buttoned up with no pants

  • Wear it frumpy and wrinkled for a “just woke up like this” flavor

  • Hike it up to catch a glimpse of booty.

  • Styled with “his” accessories for a masculine-sexy feel

  • Tied up to show a little extra abs and give a ore fashion-forward feel.

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Remember, you can be as revealing as you want to be during your boudoir shoot - from totally NSFW to completely covered up - and a crisp white button down gives you the flexibility to do just that. It also gives us tons of options for posing, gives you something productive to do with your hands, and is a classy, classy look that will never go out of style.

Need more Boudoir wardrobe inspiration? Keep checking out my blog posts for more!

xoxo,

Stephanie






Stress-Free Boudoir Wardrobe | Brooklyn Photo Studio | What to Wear to Your Boudoir Shoot

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One of the most common questions i get from clients is, “what should I wear to my boudoir shoot?” It makes perfect sense - you most likely have never been photographed professionally before, must less in a state of semi-undress and you want to look your best. Ladies, I got you. Once you have booked your Brooklyn Boudoir Experience, I will send you a very informative guide that goes over what works well for different body types and what looks best on camera - this covers different styles of lingerie, what colors look best, and what textures to avoid, and I am always available to consult with you on wardrobe ideas. Many women feel they need to go out and shop for new sexy lingerie. If this is something you WANT to do, something that will make your photoshoot feel extra special (or simply give you an excuse to hit up Agent Provocateur), get it girl! But if it’s something you are stressing about - PLEASE DON’T! I am sure that there are pieces in your closet right now that you may not even be considering that work beautifully for any boudoir shoot. Check out these ideas for stress-free boudoir wardrobe options:

1 - BODYSUITS

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It’s no secret that bodysuits are one of my favorite wardrobe pieces to shoot. They look good on EVERYONE, regardless of body type and there are so many different options out there at many different price points. Yes, there are lingerie-style bodysuits (Journelle has some of my favorites) but there are also bodysuit tops out there that are totally covered up (very on trend right now, check out Cuyana). You can even wear a one piece bathing suit! Andies makes some really beautiful ones in classic styles.

2 - TEE SHIRT or TANK TOP

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I find a classic white tank so sexy. It can be worn with or without a bra underneath for 2 totally different looks and can be wet down to kick the sex appeal up a notch. I love this look bra-less or with a black bra underneath if you want the extra coverage. Black tanks and cropped tee shirts give a similar effect. You can show as much or as little tummy as you want to with these looks - great for variety. And if you have a tee with a message you love — bring it! This ^^ “Badass Feminist” shirt ^^ is one of my favorites (currently out of stock but I am stalking the website to see when more are coming in).

3 - KIMONO, SCARF or ROBE

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This is another look that lets you choose how much or how little you want to show. A robe gives a cool, “I just woke up like this” vibe and you can be 100% covered up in it. Or, slip it down over your shoulder to show just a little bit of skin. I find shoulders, clavicles, collarbones and backs really beautiful. Scarves can serve the same purpose or we can play around with them to get some more energy & movement in your images — it can make a fun “peek-a-boo” moment.

4 - JACKETS

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Fur, leather or even a blazer - I LOVE shooting women in jackets. It’s unexpected and modern — a real fashion moment. If you have a statement jacket you love, BRING IT!

5 - ACTIVE WEAR

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So many women feel their sexiest and most powerful when they are working out. If this is the case for you, why not capture that feeling in your workout gear? With the rise of “athleisure,” active wear has become really sexy with fun cut outs, straps, and illusion panels, plus they tighten up the look of the body for a smooth line.

6 - COZY SWEATER

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January felt about 75 days long to me this year, and all I wanted to do was cuddle up in a big cozy cardigan. Worn with a simple bra and panty or nothing at all underneath, it gives the vibe of an intimate evening at home. Extra bonus that you can show as much or as little as you want with this look, and use it to highlight some of your favorite, perhaps under-appreciated parts, similar to the robe look listed above (hello, collarbones).

7 - JEANS

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OK, I KNOW you have a favorite pair of jeans in your closet that make you feel like you can take on the world. Skinny jeans with a bra and heels gives a powerful, New York Woman feel, and a looser boyfriend style is easy to slip on and off for a suggestive, “leave something to the imagination” vibe. High waisted jeans when worn alone give a very modern, “fashionista that isn’t trying too hard” feeling.

8 - BUTTON DOWN SHIRT

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Many women like to bring one of their partner’s shirts in to the shoot — it’s a classic for a reason! Another great look is a sheer-isn button down of yours. When photographed backlit it shows just enough of your outline in silhouette and looks really artistic & graceful.

9 - TIGHTS

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One of my earliest clients brought in a pair of opaque tights and I realized how genius it was! It’s totally unexpected, pretty much covered up, and also so fashion-y & sexy! Statement tights also work great to show off the legs.

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10 - BLACK BRA & PANTY

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Simplicity is often times the best! Whatever the texture - lace, cotton, sheer - a black bra and panty photograph and are sexy in an every day, not trying too hard kind of way.

11 - NOTHING AT ALL!

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Of course, no wardrobe at all is required for your boudoir shoot! “Nude” doesn’t have to be over-exposed or sexual. In fact, often times the nude looks we photograph are the most covered up of all! You can be ENTIRELY covered in a white sheet and look incredibly sexy. It’s all about what’s left to the imagination! Or, we can shoot fine art nudes that could be hung up on your wall without anyone knowing that it’s you. Or, hell, tell EVERYONE it’s you! There is no shame loving yourself and being proud of your body.

The truth is, “sexy” is much more about how you feel that what you are wearing. Whatever you decide to wear, trust me when I say, when you feel good you will look good. So feel free to think outside the box with your boudoir wardrobe and most of all, don’t stress it!

xoxo, Stephanie

Have more questions about what to wear to your shoot? Hit me up and let’s chat!




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The first question many of my clients ask me is: "What should I wear to my boudoir session?"  So, this is the first in a series of posts addressing that question, each tailored specifically to a different body type. 

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