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5 Simple Tips to Help You Get the Most Out of Your Boudoir Photoshoot | Best Boudoir Photography

Are you considering a boudoir photoshoot in New York? Great! This type of photo shoot is my absolute favorite and has become increasingly popular over the years, and with good reason. There are so many benefits to having boudoir photographs taken: they can be used as a form of self-expression, they can be a great way to boost your self-confidence, and they can make for a fun, unique experience.

But before you dive in, it’s a good idea to know what to expect and how to get the most out of your session. We’ve compiled 5 simple tips to help you get the most out of your boudoir photoshoot.

Introduction to Boudoir Photography

Boudoir photography is a type of photography that focuses on capturing intimate and sensual moments, usually in a bedroom or private setting. It’s a fun way to capture yourself in a beautiful, flattering light by a professional photographer. Boudoir photography aims to create images that show off your unique personality and style in a sexy or sensual way. It is often used to celebrate milestones like an engagement, anniversary, or wedding and be used as a gift for a partner for a special occasion. My clients often have a boudoir shoot for themselves, just because!

Benefits of a Boudoir Photoshoot

It’s a great way to document a special moment in your life or to commemorate an important milestone. It can also be a fun experience to share with a partner. On a more personal level, a boudoir photoshoot can be a great way to boost your self-confidence and body image. The photos can be a reminder of how beautiful and strong you are, and can be a great source of inspiration.

Another great benefit of boudoir photography is that it can be a great way to experiment with your style and explore different sides of your personality. You can try out different poses and clothing to create images that are uniquely you.

What to Expect During a Boudoir Photoshoot

When you’re preparing for a boudoir photoshoot, there are a few things to keep in mind. First, you’ll want to make sure you’re comfortable and relaxed. Bring a friend or partner if you feel more comfortable with someone else in the room. Keep in mind that at Brooklyn Boudoir, we are a womxn only space.

It’s also a good idea to prepare a few items that you can use to add interest and personality to your photos. This can include jewelry, accessories, props, and clothing. I will send you a prep guide after you are officially booked with tons of ideas of how to prepare for your shoot - what to bring, dos and don’t, beauty prep ideas and much more.

Finally, make sure to communicate openly with your boudoir photographer. Let them know what type of photos you’re looking for and your expectations. It’s important that with photography this intimate that you and your photographer are on the same page. A great photographer will be able to help you create the images you’re looking for.

5 Simple Tips to Help You Get the Most Out of Your Boudoir Photoshoot

Now that you know what to expect during a boudoir photoshoot, let’s take a look at 5 simple tips to help you get the most out of your session.

Tip 1: Wear Something You Feel Comfortable In

The most important part of a boudoir photoshoot is feeling comfortable and confident in your own skin. Choose clothing that you feel comfortable wearing. Don’t be afraid to experiment and try out different looks, but in general I feel that women look their best when they look and feel like themselves. No need for costumes or for wearing something you think you “should” wear. Not a high heels wearer? No problem! Bare feet look intimate, natural and sexy. More comfortable in a tank top than a a garter belt? Let’s go for that. There are no rules, except to feel like your best, most authentic self.

If you’re feeling self-conscious about showing too much skin, you can always add layers or accessories like jewelry. It’s all about finding the look that makes you feel the most confident and beautiful. You can be entirely covered up and still be sexy AF.

Tip 2: Bring Something Meaningful That Reflects Your Personality

While I don’t endorse using props in your photoshoot, wearing a piece of statement Jewlery or another meaningful accessory can add a personal touch to your photos. Engagement rings and wedding rings of course are great to feature, your wedding veil, even your wedding overskirt looks amazing on camera. A client recently brought in sentimental bracelets that she got for big life events, such as the birth of her kids. You’ll never regret capturing something special and meaningful to you.

Tip 3: Consider the types of photos you are attracted to.

A boudoir photoshoot is a great way to capture special moments in your life, so I ask you to consider what you are attracted to in this moment of your life. Do you like images that are light, soft and airy, or darker and moodier? Do you like images that are more “lifestyle” with beds and furniture, or more editorial shots using a backdrop? What level of “edge” are you hoping for? Do you prefer your face to be in the images, or are you looking for something more anonymous? These are all important to take into account.

A good photographer won’t expect you to know exactly what you are looking for, and will guide you through some questions and exercises to help get a better sense of your style. Creating a Pinterest board of photos you like is a great place to start.

Tip 4: Have Fun and Relax

It’s important to remember to have fun and relax during your boudoir photoshoot. Take the time to enjoy the experience and don’t be afraid to laugh or be silly. This is a great way to capture genuine emotion and create beautiful, natural photos.

Your photographer will be able to help you feel comfortable and guide you through the session. Don’t be afraid to ask questions or let them know if something doesn’t feel right. A professional photographer will always respect your comfort zones.

Tip 5: Connect With Your Photographer

Finally, it’s important to connect with your photographer. Boudoir photos are all about capturing genuine emotion and connection. Of course, you want to find someone whose style speaks to you. but also take the time to get to know your photographer and let them get to know you. A photograph is as much about the relationship between the photographer and client as anything else. Talk about your expectations and let them know what type of photos you’re looking for. A good photographer will be able to help you relax and create beautiful, natural photos. You may also want to find someone in the same stage of life as you are. For example, if you are over 50, you may not feel the most comfortable with a photographer in their 20s. Whoever you decide to use, remember, connection is key.

Finding a Boudoir Photographer in New York

Are you looking for a boudoir photographer in New York? There are many talented photographers in the area who specialize in boudoir photography. When choosing a photographer, make sure to look at their portfolio and find one who’s style matches your vision. You can also simply do an online search for photographers local to New York City.

It’s also a good idea to read reviews and ask for references. A good photographer will be able to help you create beautiful, natural photos that reflect your unique personality and style.

Boudoir photography is a great way to capture a special moment in your life and boost your self-confidence. Before your photoshoot, it’s a good idea to know what to expect and how to get the most out of the experience.

If you’re looking for a boudoir photographer in New York, make sure to do your research and find one whose style matches your vision. With the right photographer, you’ll be able to create beautiful photos that reflect your unique personality and style.

So don’t be afraid to take the plunge and book your boudoir photoshoot today. With these tips, you’ll be sure to get the most out of the experience and create beautiful, natural photos that you’ll cherish for years to come.

Questions about your shoot? Feel free to reach out and ask - I’m here to help!


Insecurities be Gone | Bridal Boudoir photoshoot Client Experience

Bride with veil kneeling on bed - Brooklyn Bridal Photography

Insecurities are pesky little bitches, aren't they?! One of the best compliments I get from my clients is that all of those little nagging insecurities that they have every single time they look in the mirror… they don't see them when they look at their photos.


They see themselves the way their partner does, the way I do! They see a strong, amazing, gorgeous woman!  I recently read this passage on Cup of Jo, a blog I read on the daily, and it really stuck with me:

It doesn’t make sense to call ourselves ugly, because we don’t really see ourselves. We don’t watch ourselves sleeping in bed, curled up and silent with chests rising and falling with our own rhythm. We don’t see ourselves reading a book, eyes fluttering and glowing. You don’t see yourself looking at someone with love and care inside your heart. There’s no mirror in your way when you’re laughing and smiling and happiness is leaking out of you. You would know exactly how bright and beautiful you are if you saw yourself in the moments where you are truly yourself.

I love that, don’t you?

Ms. T’s experience

It’s not unusual to feel nervous and a little insecure before a boudoir shoot, but Ms. T here was EXTRA nervous.  She was gifted a boudoir shoot by her bridal party, who knew how much this COVID bride needed it after all the stress and reschedules of trying to plan a wedding during quarantine. How sweet is that?

And I suspect Ms. T needed the push to take the plunge.  But let me tell you I am SO HAPPY that she did.  Over the course of our bridal boudoir photoshoot, I watched Ms. T go from nervous, questioning, and over-thinking to feeling it and having fun.  It was incredible to witness. 

In her own words:

“I was so, so nervous about getting the photos done for a variety of reasons and I couldn't be happier that I did! They're gorgeous and a nice confidence boost pre-wedding post-COVID weight gain. :) Stephanie was so much fun to work with and really captured the aesthetic I was hoping for. The entire experience was very fun, comfortable, and empowering.”

Still feeling insecure about a bridal boudoir photoshoot? 

Nearly everyone is always critical of this or that on their body. Everyone always thinks, I need to be a certain weight/shape/size/personality/whatever to do something like a boudoir shoot and let me just say - no, you don't, you just need to be YOU.

There is never any reason NOT to celebrate the present, as Ms. T goes on to say:

“Just do it! I feel like all women should do this type of shoot every few years, and I wish I would have known to do one when I was younger. In this moment I weigh the most I ever have and was feeling pretty down on myself; the experience and pictures helped me see myself the way others do. This is honestly one of the best things I've ever done for myself.”


I am so happy to have met Ms. T and loved to have been a part of her celebration.  Watching her come out of her shell was one of those moments that makes me so grateful to be a boudoir photographer. By letting go of our insecurities and gaining confidence, we are changing the world one woman at a time!


Also a side note that Ms. T loves the color teal, and went for a peacock colored velvet cover for her album.  I wasn’t sure about this at first but when it came in… WOW. It was SO BEAUTIFUL I added velvet cover options to my offerings. They are STUNNING.

xoxo, Stephanie

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